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Published on March 10, 2004 By BuckR In Personal Relationships
Divorce is one of the most prevalent and difficult things to go






through .











The divorce rate for first marriages is above 50 % , and above






75 % for second marriages .











Not very inviting odds . After my Divorce . I just kept busy with






work , family , music and friends .











I was not !!! interested in getting out in that " Dating " world .











A friend , told one of his co-workers about me , and she wanted to






meet me .











To make a long story short . She hung in there , until I got over






being scared to death











of another relationship . The rest of that story is like a dream come





true .











Anyway , I discovered that in any relationship .






It takes 2 to make it , and 2 to break it .











How you decide to distribute the %'s of who did what to make it or



break it .















Is just poorly spent time . I decided to just move on ,



and not spend time poorly .











To my point . If a relationship is too difficult , it is probably not the

one for you .











Or , you are not the one for them . There are more single females






than single males











in the dating universe . Guys , that is to our advantage . Ladies ,






that is to your disadvantage .











I have my own theory on that . And I will keep that one for myself .






Some people should forever remain single .











If you are one of those , get use to it . Develope friends and






hobbies to keep you busy .











If you are one of the blessed ones , that is to have a special






someone . That person is











out there for you . You just have to patiently wait unitl they come



around . Go about your normal life ,











and they will appear . But , only if you have " Faith " .






Thanks to Peggy .






My faith was renewed .











c ya later . buckr Copyright Smithfield , Va 2004




































Comments
on Mar 11, 2004
I'm glad you like your own work. I actually liked this one.